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Transitioning Home discussion groups for new parents

on February 18th, 2012 at 4:25:49 PM

Becoming a new parent is a challenging time! A parent who leaves the paid workforce to be at home experiences not only the major changes of new parenthood but also often unexpected feelings and questions related to being an at-home parent. This Spring, Family and Home Network is re-launching our Transitioning Home parent discussion groups. During this six-week series of meetings, we’ll cover many topics including:

·    Expectations, personal identity and the potential for personal growth

·    The needs of infants and the critical mother-infant relationship

·    Myths and realities of a home-based life

·    Family, community, cultural influences 

·    Finding support and resources

We’ll meet online, using Google+ hangouts. We are offering FREE groups for first-time parents whose infant who was born between June and November 2011. (If you aren’t in that category, please tell us if you’d like to participate in future groups.)

Transitioning Home discussion groups will include up to 9 parents and a facilitator from FAHN; meetings will last 90 minutes. A workbook will be mailed to each participant (FAHN asks for a modest, voluntary donation of $10 to cover the cost). The workbook includes many essays (from the archives of our journal Welcome Home) for reading between meetings, reflection/writing opportunities, and both individual and group exercises.

Discussion group meetings will begin the week of February 26—this offer is open until all available spaces in groups are filled.

We would really appreciate your help in spreading the word about this opportunity! Below is a very brief notice you could copy and paste into an email message for neighborhood email lists or parent groups. For more information, and to indicate your interest, please see the Transitioning Home webpage.

Some New Year's Non Resolutions

on February 13th, 2012 at 6:26:11 PM

 

Happy New Year!!

This year I don't resolve to:
 
lose weight
get organized
make more money
exercise more
write more
read more
or
spend more time with family and friends
 
Those resolutions never seem to last anyway...
 
I do vow to appreciate what I have today:  good health, time with family and friends, financial stability, time to do what I love most:  reading, writing, running, biking, walking my new doggie (more about her to come), and adequate space for everything I need. I may not have an overabundance of these things, but I have what I need right now.  Overly high expectations of myself and others invariably lead to a dead end.
 
I think, in this new year of 2012, we could all use a bit less self-transformation and a bit more self-appreciation. Let's turn down a notch our unending quests to try harder or be better versions of ourselves. Let's find more contentment with who we are right now and appreciate what we accomplish every day just by authentically being ourselves. Not ideal, airbrushed, romanticized versions of ourselves, but rather the real, imperfect, genuine and good enough ones.
 
The concept of not trying harder contradicts everything we read and see these days, but I truly believe we accomplish more when we positively focus on what we are versus what we could be. On what we're doing right versus doing wrong. Awareness of our present situation helps us recognize what's working good enough in our lives, and how certain unrealistic ideals can simply be let go. Often this simple, singular approach can work even better than setting numerous goals that not only are vague but also don't account for the way we are wired.
 

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Making Human Beings Human

on January 20th, 2012 at 3:22:37 PM

The great Urie Bronfenbrenner, professor of human development, wrote in a 1988 essay:

"In order to develop normally, a child needs the enduring, irrational involvement of one or more adults in care of and in joint activity with that child. In short, somebody has to be crazy about that kid. ...Of all the settings that help make us human, the family provides the most important developmental conditions: the love and care that a child needs to thrive. A healthy child and future adult is one who has such devoted people actively engaged in its life--those who love it, spend time with it, challenge it, and are interested in what it does and wants to do, in what it accomplishes from day to day. Other settings, such as school, church, or day care, are important to a child's development, but nothing can replace this basic unit of our social system: the family is the most humane, the most powerful, and by far the most economical system known for making and keeping human beings human."

Urie Bronfenbrenner, “Strengthening Family Systems,” in Making Human Beings Human: Bioecological Perspectives on Human Development, 1st ed. (Sage Publications, Inc, 2004).

Welcoming our first website editor!

on January 10th, 2012 at 5:03:27 PM

We’re happy to introduce our first volunteer web editor, Joanne LaSpina. With experience as a blogger on her own site, Joanne was willing to dive into learning how to use FAHN’s website building tools. She’ll be adding content to the FAHN website—and started with her own article. Challenging Journey: Food Allergies was first published in our monthly journal Welcome Home. Thank you, Joanne, for volunteering!

 

Happy New Year!

on December 29th, 2011 at 4:34:01 PM

We just sent out our E-News – with the link below you can read it online: it includes some exciting news about our 2012 plans as well as links to the latest additions to our website. Please pitch in to support our work with a tax-deductible donation—since 1984, individual contributions have kept this grassroots nonprofit organization going. At the bottom of the E-News, there’s a “subscribe” link—sign up and have it delivered to your email inbox. Happy New Year to all!

Family and Home Network's E-News

Make Believe

on December 13th, 2011 at 6:21:29 PM

...play is critical to children's expression of strong feellings such as anger and fear. Play offers children opportunities to reflect on their experiences and to explore possible future scenarios... read more of my review of Dr. Susan Linn's book The Case for Make Believe: Saving Play in a Commercialized World.

Gift-Giving: You Won't Find This in a Store

on December 5th, 2011 at 4:43:57 PM

Here are some out-of-the-box ideas on gift giving from our staff and volunteers...

Please share your own ideas by posting a comment (comments are moderated so there will be a delay before they appear).

 

Fostering Appreciation In Children

on November 20th, 2011 at 8:58:58 PM

From long-time editor and writer Nelia Odom: Fostering Appreciation in Children

Outdoor adventures

on November 15th, 2011 at 3:32:00 PM

Two additions to our website:

We're Going to the Swamp--NOW! by Cathy Myers (FAHN's executive director)

and

Motherhood and Advocacy, Complementary Roles

About an at-home mother and the enduring gift she gave to wildlife and people.

Grand Passion

on November 2nd, 2011 at 3:10:31 PM

From the Welcome Home archives, "Grand Passion" by Wendy O'Connor

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